1 Thessalonians 2
For yourselves, brethren, know our entrance in unto you, that it was not in vain:
2 But even after that we had suffered before, and were shamefully entreated, as ye know, at Philippi, we were bold in our God to speak unto you the gospel of God with much contention.
3 For our exhortation was not of deceit, nor of uncleanness, nor in guile:
4 But as we were allowed of God to be put in trust with the gospel, even so we speak; not as pleasing men, but God, which trieth our hearts.
5 For neither at any time used we flattering words, as ye know, nor a cloke of covetousness; God is witness:
6 Nor of men sought we glory, neither of you, nor yet of others, when we might have been burdensome, as the apostles of Christ.
7 But we were gentle among you, even as a nurse cherisheth her children:
8 So being affectionately desirous of you, we were willing to have imparted unto you, not the gospel of God only, but also our own souls, because ye were dear unto us.
9 For ye remember, brethren, our labour and travail: for labouring night and day, because we would not be chargeable unto any of you, we preached unto you the gospel of God.
10 Ye are witnesses, and God also, how holily and justly and unblameably we behaved ourselves among you that believe:
11 As ye know how we exhorted and comforted and charged every one of you, as a father doth his children,
12 That ye would walk worthy of God, who hath called you unto his kingdom and glory.
13 For this cause also thank we God without ceasing, because, when ye received the word of God which ye heard of us, ye received it not as the word of men, but as it is in truth, the word of God, which effectually worketh also in you that believe.
14 For ye, brethren, became followers of the churches of God which in Judaea are in Christ Jesus: for ye also have suffered like things of your own countrymen, even as they have of the Jews:
15 Who both killed the Lord Jesus, and their own prophets, and have persecuted us; and they please not God, and are contrary to all men:
16 Forbidding us to speak to the Gentiles that they might be saved, to fill up their sins alway: for the wrath is come upon them to the uttermost.
17 But we, brethren, being taken from you for a short time in presence, not in heart, endeavoured the more abundantly to see your face with great desire.
18 Wherefore we would have come unto you, even I Paul, once and again; but Satan hindered us.
19 For what is our hope, or joy, or crown of rejoicing? Are not even ye in the presence of our Lord Jesus Christ at his coming?
20 For ye are our glory and joy.
Public Domain KJV text from Wordproject.org
In this chapter, Paul displays a standard for leaders to follow. Paul reminds the Thessalonians of his behaviour as he witnessed among them. He points to how he “exhorted, and comforted, and charged every one, just like a father does his own children.” Paul also reminds them of how he did not seek glory from men, nor make demands, but was gentle, just as a “nursing mother cherishes her own children.”
A good leader knows when one must be authoritative and when one must be gentle. Paul recognized the importance of dynamic leadership and realized that he did not need to come to the Thessalonians “asserting his authority as an apostle.” Instead, Paul was gentle, knowing the Thessalonians were “children” when it came to spiritual things.
John Maxwell writes “Leadership is influence: nothing more, nothing less.” Whether we are leaders by appointment or simply through influence, we must remember to be dynamic in our interactions. Just as it is important to “be strong and preach the Word” we must also know when situations require a gentle, nurturing spirit. In response to the call to lead today, will you allow Jesus to give you His gentle Spirit as you lead others to Him?
Student Association Pastor, Great Lakes Adventist Academy Michigan USA