Then Job answered and said,
2 How long will ye vex my soul, and break me in pieces with words?
3 These ten times have ye reproached me: ye are not ashamed that ye make yourselves strange to me.
4 And be it indeed that I have erred, mine error remaineth with myself.
5 If indeed ye will magnify yourselves against me, and plead against me my reproach:
6 Know now that God hath overthrown me, and hath compassed me with his net.
7 Behold, I cry out of wrong, but I am not heard: I cry aloud, but there is no judgment.
8 He hath fenced up my way that I cannot pass, and he hath set darkness in my paths.
9 He hath stripped me of my glory, and taken the crown from my head.
10 He hath destroyed me on every side, and I am gone: and mine hope hath he removed like a tree.
11 He hath also kindled his wrath against me, and he counteth me unto him as one of his enemies.
12 His troops come together, and raise up their way against me, and encamp round about my tabernacle.
13 He hath put my brethren far from me, and mine acquaintance are verily estranged from me.
14 My kinsfolk have failed, and my familiar friends have forgotten me.
15 They that dwell in mine house, and my maids, count me for a stranger: I am an alien in their sight.
16 I called my servant, and he gave me no answer; I intreated him with my mouth.
17 My breath is strange to my wife, though I intreated for the children's sake of mine own body.
18 Yea, young children despised me; I arose, and they spake against me.
19 All my inward friends abhorred me: and they whom I loved are turned against me.
20 My bone cleaveth to my skin and to my flesh, and I am escaped with the skin of my teeth.
21 Have pity upon me, have pity upon me, O ye my friends; for the hand of God hath touched me.
22 Why do ye persecute me as God, and are not satisfied with my flesh?
23 Oh that my words were now written! oh that they were printed in a book!
24 That they were graven with an iron pen and lead in the rock for ever!
25 For I know that my redeemer liveth, and that he shall stand at the latter day upon the earth:
26 And though after my skin worms destroy this body, yet in my flesh shall I see God:
27 Whom I shall see for myself, and mine eyes shall behold, and not another; though my reins be consumed within me.
28 But ye should say, Why persecute we him, seeing the root of the matter is found in me?
29 Be ye afraid of the sword: for wrath bringeth the punishments of the sword, that ye may know there is a judgment.
Public Domain KJV text from Wordproject.org
How long will you torment and attack me with your words? I am crushed.
Those I love have turned against me. Have pity!
When illness and tragedy strike, it is common for the sufferer to be misunderstood, verbally attacked or abandoned by friends and family. When the illness or loss is not easily resolved or explained, many people are unable to cope with long-term suffering. So they walk away, leaving the sufferer feeling forgotten and alone, wondering why loved ones refuse to care and provide. Other times, family and friends attack the heart-motives of the sufferer, accusing them of dreadful things. Too often, sufferers are doubly wounded, the grief of loss or illness compounded by the cruel words of those who refuse to understand. Those who should care the most are often the most unwilling to care.
God hears the words that cut and vilify you. He sees the attitudes that attack you and the hearts that reject you. He knows your heart’s wounds.
If friends and family abandon you, God will defend you. He will bring compassionate people into your life as balm for your wounds, people who will grace your life with God’s healing love. Trust His heart.
Chaplain (currently disabled), Eugene, Oregon USA